Your best friends could be swingers and you’d never even know it.
However, there are masses of trustworthy and reliable swinging websites you can browse, all of which allow you to search for other couples, sex clubs and events by location.
Set up joint accounts on multiple swinging sites and see which one returns the most interesting people, then focus on that site.
Swingers are friendly folk, after all, and it’s a good ice-breaker.
It’s hard to say exactly what will happen, and that’s half the thrill of the night.
Different swinging clubs also use different signals and codes.
They exist in abundance in most major cities though.
That said, be prepared for your interests to evolve in ways you don’t expect.